Keynote 01Regulated Leadership: Composure When It Counts
How leaders steady themselves and their teams when the room turns tense. Practical tools grounded in nervous system science.
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KEYNOTE SPEAKER, RESEARCHER, DOCTOR OF SOCIAL WORK
Dr. Kay De Simone helps leaders and high achievers perform under pressure with clarity, composure, and presence. She brings twenty years of working inside the most demanding environments in the country to every stage.
Who Kay Speaks To
Dr. Kay works with people who are expected to be the calmest person in the room, no matter what the room is doing.
Finance, technology, and the leaders carrying decisions that affect everyone beneath them.
Medicine and law, where the cost of a bad day is measured in other people's outcomes.
Top-tier schools, aviation, and anyone trained to perform at a level where mistakes are not an option.

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[PLACEHOLDER: TEDx talk link]The Framework
A research-backed method for staying regulated, decisive, and present when the stakes are highest.
Placeholder description of this pillar and the shift it creates. A second sentence on how audiences apply it the next morning.
Placeholder description of this pillar and the shift it creates. A second sentence on how audiences apply it the next morning.
Placeholder description of this pillar and the shift it creates. A second sentence on how audiences apply it the next morning.
Keynotes
Each keynote can be tailored to your audience, from executive retreats to all-hands conferences and graduation stages.
Keynote 01How leaders steady themselves and their teams when the room turns tense. Practical tools grounded in nervous system science.
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Keynote 02Why the traits that drive success can quietly erode it. A roadmap for sustaining excellence without sacrificing health.
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Keynote 03What it takes to stay clear, connected, and decisive in high-stakes moments. Techniques drawn from two decades of research and practice.
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About Kay
Dr. Kay De Simone has spent more than twenty years working alongside executives, physicians, attorneys, founders, and students inside the most demanding environments in the country. A doctor of social work, researcher, and TEDx speaker, she brings rigor and real warmth to every stage.
More about Kay“Clients describe me as warm but incisive, calming but energizing.”
What Audiences Say
“Kay held a room of three hundred senior leaders in complete stillness. Her tools were practical, her presence was disarming, and our team is still using what she taught weeks later.”
For Meeting Planners
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A Gift From Kay
A short, practical guide to staying regulated in high-stakes moments, from someone who has spent twenty years in the room with high achievers.
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